Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Ignore negativity

The book I read is called "The Success Principles" by Jack Canfield.  He is also co creator of "Chicken Soup for the Soul"

Chapter 2 "Transform yourself for Success".  It is so important to spend time with the people you want to become like.  If you want to be more successful, you have to start hanging out with more successful people.

"You will become like the people you spend the most time with".  These successful people have learned to never give up dreams.  No matter what the failure, is to try another way, try going up, over,    around, or through, but never give up. There's always a way.

What this means,  you keep trying and do not give up. Always find a way to get ahead and avoid people who pulls you down like "crab theory".    You need to be surrounded by those who have done it;  you need to surrounded with people who have a positive attitude, a solution-oriented approach to life---people who know that they can accomplish whatever they set out to do.

What is "crab theory"  Several crabs were in large pot and some of the crabs are trying to climb out of pot, other crabs that pulls those crabs back into pot. That means when someone tries to succeed, and others who don't want see you succeed, will try to pull you down with negativity, such as trying to ruin your reputation or try to tell you, you can't do this or you won't make it.

Drop out of the Ain't it awful club.  

"There are two types of people--- anchors and motors".
You want to lose the anchors and get with the motors because the motors are going somewhere and they're having more fun. The anchors will just drag you down.  WYLAND, world-renowned marine artist.

Avoid toxic people.  You need to avoid toxic people at all costs.  You're better off spending time alone than spending time with people who will hold you back with their victim mentality and their mediocre standards.

Make a conscious effort to surround yourself with positive, nourishing, and uplifting people----people who believe in you, encourage you to go after your dreams, and applaud your victories.  Surround yourself with positive thinkers, idealist and visionaries.

What this means for you?  When you look and see something you like, go for it! Ignore people who says negative words and focus on people who believes all things are possible.

Dream big and dreams do come true!

Don't give up!

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